family munch on Bhut or 7 pot...
my god if you have a family like that!!!!
Biker Billy Jalapeno is the Hottest Jalapeno out there... will your family stand on that?
you should go with lower heat for the family and High heat for you...
good producer : Cayenne, Jalapeno, Bishop's crown, some Habanero with lower heat
Aji Lemon , and things like that should fit the family...
Hope this help
Personally i love Bishop's crown and Cherry bomb for small stuffing moderate heat pepper... good for family!