WTF??? I hate internet anonymity. Maybe come up with a short but polite reply to all of them explaining the situation. Turn it back on them by making them feel guilty.
thanks guys, i put up a whole thing explaining the situation and that it is a terminal cancer, but with meds and treatments he can get a few more years. and they still sent rude nasty emails, what upset me the most is my mom read them before i did and she cried for 2 days straight. its not right