The Hot Pepper

f**ken people. I hate'em.

you and me both scovie, its bad enough that my mom is losing her first, first love and best friend. then to have some anonymous assholes say the shit they said, its pretty bad. i mean honestly the only reason they are asking for help is because they are losing everything, the house and car and my dad. and i have officially run out of cash and things to sell to help them

So sorry your mom had to read that mess, MP. My thoughts and prayers are with you guys. The internet generation really are some lousy human beings.

whats the URL?

that they are. thanks buzz. prime url? all i have is the email associated with the paypal account. im not sure how to set it up any other way

ok im starting a fundraiser at giveforward.com hopefully that works better

Hopefully after I get paid again I'll be able to help out some. I spent myself silly on my honeymoon last week.

thanks buzz, but honestly im not asking anybody to help. times are tough for everybody and i know that, i was just upset and venting about it. i was actually considering shutting it down.

lack of compassion and the ability to insult the suffering never ceases to amaze me.
Stay strong Nate. someday they will realize the shame in what they said. when cancer touches them. Stupid friggen cancer touches all of us, one way or another.

thanks hogleg, that is true cancer does touch everybody in one way or another, its very upsetting and cant believe some one would say something so bad, specially when it was posted on facebook and only close friends and family can see it

I know you aren't asking. You're venting, and that's cool. But I had cancer myself a few years back. The mortality rate for what I had (testicular cancer) is less than 2%, so I wasn't in any real danger, but it touched me deeply how many people took it upon themselves to help me, even if I felt I didn't need the help. They just wanted to. I've never forgotten it, and would love to pay it forward.

Well PM me the fundraiser page. I think you know my family is still dealing with my sisters brain cancer and Id like to send a small amount. As far as people being rude about such a thing, its amazing how its just someone else or someone else's family until its you and yours... Stay strong brother, strong hearts is what beats this.

thanks buzz, sorry to hear about your nuts. i actually know a guy who passed away from testicular cancer, it had moved up into his lungs by the time they found it and sadly he passed. prime yes i havent forgotten about your sister and her struggle, and it saddens me. hope she is well and stays that way.

"Sorry to hear about your nuts." LMAO!!!!! Best sympathy card EVER!!!!! Thanks!

haha sorry i really was being sympathetic, it is very unfortunate that you had that, my mom is a registered nurse, and was in the intensive care unit until last year where she transferred to the cancer clinic, i know exactly what you had to go through. treatments and all that, just dont know the pain and personal experience

She is good and continues with all of her therapies. It has brought us all closer together and she knows how much support she has. If I can feel your support for your father trust that he certainly can!

Keep your head up and show him a smile!

I got your PM thanks

No problem, bud. I just thought it was funny. Wasn't doubting your sincerity. Yeah. My heart goes out to ANYONE who has to go through the heavy metal poisoning that is chemotherapy. I can't imagine how your dad must be feeling. I'm praying that your family finds peace.

Primte Time, prayers to you and your family as well.

Thanks Buzz we are good.

thanks prime, i hope my dad can feel the love and support, there is a lot of it from me and the rest of my family and some friends. i regularly tell my dad how i feel. he knows he is my hero and i only hope to be half the man he is some day.
thanks buzz, the chemo and radiation has been tough, we had to pay a has-mat team to come empty our septic tank, my mom wouldnt tell me how much it cost, but i know it was absurd