FigBid.com is run by a member of OurFigs.com. He goes by the username NYCfigs. It's a good group. They're quite vigilant at watching out for scammers and fraudsters and call them out when they find them. I post over there from time to time and have purchased cuttings directly from members on the forum and from sellers on FigBid. It's a great place to find uncommon and new varieties, and Our Figs is a great resource to learn all the tips and tricks to growing figs. It's pretty much the fig equivalent to The Hot Pepper.
But as Pr0digal_son suggested, if you're just getting into it, go to a local nursery and find an established plant. It is possible to overwinter figs in-ground in cold northeast locations. You'll need to prune the tree back, tie it up, wrap layers of blankets, then cover it with a tarp and tie it at the base. This will keep enough insulation to prevent the crown from being killed by the very cold temperatures. The other option is to grow it in a large pot (15 gallon, or so), and then move it to a sheltered location in winter. Some growers in cold regions put them in their basements over winter then pull them back out about when the snow thaws.