Back here from some hard time off

I don't know if anyone remembers me, but I was here from a year ago to about 2 years ago, but I stopped abruptly. I found out my wife was cheating on me and I had to go through the turmoil of a divorce, come to the realization I can't live with my kid anymore, etc... I had to leave my house and move back with my parents. All that happened while I was laid off from my job. (yeah she kicked me while I was down) I found a great girlfriend during that time and also finally found a job last December. My divorce was finalized last week. Now I need to get finances in order and figure out where I'm gonna live, when I'm gonna marry my girlfriend, (if she can hang in there a bit longer) who is younger and gorgeous, especially compared to the old battle ax cheater... I get my son most weekends and he's 10 not a little baby, and he loves coming over and playing Xbox, going to monster truck shows, and being with me and my girlfriend and her nephew who he gets along with. So things do get better for anyone who is going through rough times.

During that time was growing hot peppers. Most of my potted plants are at my girlfriend's place and my two old ghost pepper plants are with me.. Hopefully if my ghost seedlings sprout I can plant some outside next summer and get a real yield...
 
Been there worlok.

It sucks at first, but when you realize how much better you are without her, you'll either want to thank her, or smash her face in (kidding, sort of).

Welcome Back, Its all good!

Buck
 
Welcome back!

I feel your pain Brother! I was in the middle of my divorce when I got laid off from my job in Jan 2010. My ex decided she owned our house though she was a stay at home wife.

No cheating ours went south when I needed to take care of my 82 yo Mom after my dad past away. The ex said "what ever it takes", well that lasted three months and then she said (No BS) your mom has to go. She actually told me that she was afraid my mom could live another 10 years.

About a year later my mom went into the hostpital after a major heart attack. The hospital said she would not survive this and after a week they wanted to send her home with Hospice Care. The Ex screamed and yelled at me in the Hospital that she couldn't belive that I was bringing Mom back to "HER" house. Unfortunately Mom didn't last the day and she didn't make back to our house. She died quietly that afternoon in the hospital after she ate her lunch.

Long story short, My mom Passed after being with us a year and a half. I couldn't forgive the Ex for deserting me when I needed her the most after 18 years of marrage. Now the house gone, Ex Wife Gone, I see my two kids 9 & 14 less than 50% of the time because of the work I do as a pilot the state figured she was better for them and awarded her Primary Physical custody. Everything I had worked so long and hard for was now gone after an exhaustive fight and being unemployed for a year.

I finally got a new job and new awesome girlfriend like you. Life Does get better after the war Brother! Hang in there.
 
Welcome back Worlock. Sounds like you are on a better path now.

TheHotSauceSource, I think she would have turned into new organic material for YOUR house after that line of poo......
 
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