What kind of PPM meter are you using? Are you hydro?
What he said about RO water, even filtered tap (filtered soft) water can have low levels of calcium. I've been in my Apt for 2 years and we have no problems with calcium deposits. Leads me to beleive that the building may be filtering the water for each unit or something. I dunno
BER is typically caused by lack of calcium because of uneven watering, too much at any time or not enough at any time, or any combination of both. BER is not usually caused by the lack of calcium in your grow medium unless you're using a bare bones medium. And, when grown in ground, plants will exhibit BER in the early fruits and then they will grow out of the problem when watered properly.