I never tried a Defcon sauce before, even though they sound awesome.
Now I can't really mix dairy with meat, and they do have butter in them.
So if I'll try one, it won't be with wings.
do you eat any vegetable curry's? If so, use the same ingredients ( veggies of choice - for me - green beans, cauliflower, peas, baby potatoes), but replace the curry with Defcon...it's a recipe I've been planning...