Sounds like a good plan!
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No problems. You're not the only offender out there with vertical videos, and I might have forgotten once or twice.
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Wetting agent (really a surfactant, called so since it likes to reside in the surface between liquid/air) is a substance which decreases the surface tension of the water. What this means, and why it's called a "wetting agent", is that the water "wets" surfaces better. In physical terms we're talking about a larger angle between the surface and the droplet. In visual terms, instead of droplets on your leafs which roll off you get a thin film of wetness instead. The coverage of a foliar spray (of any kind: insecticidal, nutritional, AACT, etc.) increases very much. Think how dishwashing water wets a surface as compared to tap water. It spreads out much more easily.
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So yes, for all foliar sprays I really recommend a wetting agent. Otherwise you will only hit 5-10% of all surface area or so. If you have none other, dishwashing liquid works. Just use a small amount, 0.01 % or so, since it's sligthly phytotoxic. If you plan in investing I would recommend Polysorbate 80 ("Tween 80") since it's very non-toxic to plants and microbes, but also a very good wetting agent (way better than dishwashing liquid). I just ordered a kilogram of that since I spray a lot and dishwashing liquid is, albeit it works decently, non-ideal. I also can't up the dose of the liquid, e.g. with oil containing sprays, over 0.05 % since I'm afraid of phytotoxicity which is a bummer.
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If you think you're overwatering, you probably are! And yes, that could totally give light color of the leaves. But so does alkaline soil as well. Try to water less and try to bring that pH down. In your situation I would adjust the pH of the water slightly even before I've acquired a pH meter since it shouldn't hurt any even if it turns out to be just fine. Do remember to take a soil sample a bit after you've watered (with neutral water that time) if you plan to do so, since it will give you more accurate results if the lime is in your topsoil only.