So first you quote your friend saying: "The cool thing about organic gardening is that YOU can decide how deeply you'd like to get into it."
And then you say:
I think your pushiness with the issue probably turns more people off to organic growing than anything on this forum. You just won't stop. It seems like every other post of yours is the same preachy crap, time after time. That condescending, know-it-all pontification about how you have seen the light of organic gardening and how anyone who hasn't and, furthermore, (god forbid) defends their position is just some uneducated dope that needs to be talked down to until they see the light too.
I grow almost entirely organically. The only time I use salt fertilizer is when I sprinkle some 15-15-15 on the lawn in spring and fall. (Gotta grow some compost!) I understand that using salt fertilizers might undo some of the benefits I'm seeing from trying to build and maintain helpful soil microbiota. I also understand that other growers have (gasp!) differing opinions, experiences and budgets when it comes to gardening. I do my best to document my progress, answer questions and offer advice when it seems like it could help another grower. I have seen this approach prove much more conducive to a free flow of ideas among the different schools of gardening than your three-part process of 1.) preaching 2.) showing contempt when others express differing opinions and 3.) bowing out of the debate when you (again) fail to convert anyone with your incessant evangelizing.
My organic garden turned out pretty good this year (as evidenced by my glog). But I know there are many other growers here that I still need to learn from, regardless of whether they grow organically or not. That's one of the reasons why I'm here - to see the amazing gardens that some of these folks grow and do what I can to find out how they do it and see if I can achieve results like theirs. Not to have one guy's opinions on gardening crammed down my throat at every turn. That doesn't help anyone.