its not that i am a poor speller, i use to be quite an effective communicator, in the past 5 years my skills are slowing slipping away and i am having a very difficult time remembering how to spell certain words. perhaps due to lack of interaction with like minded peers.
for 2 years i would dictate my kids weekly spelling lists, every day, they would get a list of 20 words and i would have them spell out the words, make up a sentence using the word, then dictate the words. if they incorrectly spelt a word they would have to say the word out loud, then spell it out loud, then write it out - 10 times. (of course if it was a simple word then only 5 times. by test time they always would get 100%. This year, no spelling, school doesn't believe in memorization, they believe it is not effective, mean while my 9 year old spelt the word cake, kak, on her grandmother's birthday card.
don't forget "read" and "read", to read a book, i read a book, the color red. Redd Fox.
just image learning mandarin chinese, with the 4 tonals, the word pronounced "shi", can mean yes, ten, to grow, poem, hog, lion.... this one word can have almost 100 meanings, ouch, that is a lot on one's brain.