I just add about a 1/4 inch of water when bottom watering, and let the plants absorb that. They take it up fairly quickly if they need it, perhaps five to ten minutes.
The 'weight' method is the best I have found for determining when to water, however, it takes practice to get it right.
Of course, I often water daily, but usually every other day, once the plants are well established in three inch pots, but again, only if they need it.
There are many factors to consider; ambient temperature, airflow, humidity, growing medium, light type and intensity, etc.
Once the plants are established, underwatering will, in my experience, present less problems than overwatering. In fact, some have suggested that it is actually good for the plants to start 'drooping' before watering.