Phil, is it the doctor or the insurance company? Not making fun of you at all when I say try the psychologist route. I never imagined caring about loosing part of my foot. Sure it will pass with time, but can not stand to look at the missing spot now. Haven't seen a shrink, dont think a testicle or toe is nearly as life shattering as a leg, arm, or eye; but I am absolutely sure there is a medical explanation for folk caring about these things that medical doctors say dont matter.
Now on the other hand, think of all the cook things they could put in our prosthetic. Are you scratching your balls? No, i am switching my ipod to shuffle.
Again: I am sue I am going to get past it. So will you.
On mites: Radio Shack has hand held illuminated microscopes for less than twenty bucks. Even if a person doesnt have suspected mites, they give you an entirely different perspective on what plants look like, especially the flowers.