The Hot Pepper

It isn't as hard as you think. It just seems that way from your current point of view. A habit is just a thought you keep thinking. You can't exclude or push it away, but you can change it by thinking about something else what you prefer when you find yourself "bothered". Once you get used to it, it becomes the new "standard".

You just gotta try and think about what will matter in the grand scheme of things and what wont. We as humans turn petty, insignificant things into huge issues..

Thanks for the great advice guys....

Practice in heavy traffic. When you can smile at being cut-off, the constant honking of horns, the yelling and screaming, it will click. There is a reason, it's not for you to know, and there is nothing you can do about it but enjoy the ride, or obsess about it. It's a simple choice that is hard to make.

My cousin has 5 kids. Small things can definitely bother you and weigh you down..!