MikeUSMC said:
Being able to tell people to "Get the f**k off of my lawn!" is a great feeling too
Maybe that's just me being crotchety at the ripe old age of 36 though
Ha, yeah! Since some time last year, my wife (who is home with the kids) has noticed a Chinese woman (relevant later to the story) walking by my house, onto my lawn, and peering into my garden. It's all in the front yard (about 36 beds), I get negligible backyard sun. I've been a bit p!ssed about it, thinking she'd try to harvest something or, God forbid, she tried to check out my beehives just yards away, gets stung, etc. I told her to let out the dog next time, my wife said no, blah blah blah.
A few weeks ago, I took a day off work to garden. A van pulls over and out hops this woman and, I presume, her father. The man could speak no English but he was amazed at what I was growing. Going nuts over onions and garlic. His daughter could speak some English and we got on ok (she had no clue what a "pepper" was - how unfortunate!). I wound up giving them a bunch of tomato plants and surplus purple bunching onions that had been in one of my beds for years. They were incredibly grateful.
Now, when they drive by, we wave. I haven't seen her walk by in a while, but in hindsight, even if I had said eff off way back when, it probably wouldn't have sunk in