First of all, you have to remember that no one held a gun to her head and made her take a managment position. It's willful employment. She knew there'd be some fucked up goings on when she took the position. If you're a manager of anything and theres no stress or bullshit on occasion at all then you're the luckiest manager on the planet, because that just does not go with the job description. That being said, i just think its wonderful that you offered to cover for her so she could get a break. Just make sure they don't take advantage of you.....which honestly sometimes it seems to me like they have. You can't be helpful all the time, dear. Sometimes you just have to be selfish just to save your own sanity, you know? Sorry if i'm going off on a tangent again. I can't help it at times.