I'm sure we have all had this problem. You go to a restaurant and order something and the waiter/waitress asks what heat level you would like. This is the tricky part for hotheads. Nine times out of ten, the food comes to you and is mild or not even spicy. I'm comfortable with scorpion peppers at this point and trying to illustrate how hot I want a dish when I go out is very difficult. I don't know if they think I can't handle a high heat level or what but I'm usually disappointed in the heat on my plate. A lot of the time I just carry around my own hot sauce because nowhere I go is hot enough. I live in Seattle so tips for restaurants that 'get it' are appreciated too. Is there a magic phrase that seems to work for you?