Reading the answers, I can not help bur realize how blessed I am. There are so many people who answered urban / suburban but added that they want to live rural. After military, went urban with first wife, then suburban with first home. Then divorce and moved to the worst possible way of living: Condo. You know, where they tell you that you own the place but you can not do a damn thing you want to do. Then one lane road where occasionally you gotta get out the car and encourage the cow to get out the road.
Recently, much time to read forums and news. Even now that I am planting out, I am only good for maybe an hour before I need to sit for a time. Been reading a lot about people getting busted by their city for growing the wrong thing in the wrong place. It is usually around the theme of you can not grow food in your front yard, but sometimes it is you cant grow food anywhere on your property. Oh damn, and the how tall your grass can be with an exemption for ornamental grass. I'd let it all go to seed and say the entire damn lawn is ornamental.
So wondering of you folk who are urban but want to be rural, is it because you want more land, want to do things they wont let you, or is it a general distaste for your municipality / homeowners association constantly checking your prostate? I like having a wee bit of land, love the decreased regulations, but really like being able to shit without worry that I will flush a member of town council after i do.