There's plenty of disappointing things in life, so there's nothing wrong with attempting to de-emphasize experiencing the loss of life ...
But, it's all good. We all decide what amount of IQ amounts to too much to steal life away from ...
I worked in medicine for 7-8 years, which changes your POV a bit ... at least ...
Danielle enjoys reading sad stories, and make's herself cry on the regular ... enjoys feeling what other people feel ...
I find experiencing all that's sad in the world makes me somewhat existentially depressed ... and largely sad for all people ...
Everyone's different, and no one is right.