This just confirms my constant argument. I have yet to visit an eatery that can make the food hot enough. The only places that come close are Thai joints and than you're only dealing with Thai chiles. Getting a hab anywhere locally is next to impossible and even the Indian grocers don't carry any real hot chiles.
I have some hope for the Mexican joint near me. I've not had anything more than a mild burrito so far, but they do have good jalapenos, so we'll see.
You're right though. Everyone's supposed world's hottest just does not compare to what we eat. As i type i'm eating a turkey burger stuffed with red hab and yellow fatalii with tian jin powder. It's just impossible to get this from a Latino/Hispanic eatery.