It's funny that you happen to mention grass, right after the first part.
In our area, grass is one of the biggest reasons why your first statement is compounded by the ignorance factor. The old inground issue was always that it was believed that P wasn't taken up properly when the ground was cold. So, megadoses of P would be added, as compensation. The problem is, almost none of it was available. (there is enough P in the ground just about everywhere) P is only available in a certain PH range, which is somewhere just south of neutral. That old-school ignorance has been handed down as science fact for a very long time, and seemingly became applicable everywhere. So here I am, sitting in a beachside town, where the native soil has a PH of 8-8.5, and I see the truck every two weeks come to people's lawns to dump a shitload of high P fertilizer down. Since our "soil" is nothing more than porous sand, that stuff ends up in our waterways, where it turns to algael bloom, and other stinky funk, that makes the once crystal clear waters, look like a giant open cesspool.
I personally wish that grass was banned in our area. It's a complete alien, and growing it is destructive to the native environment.