Nigger, Whore, Spick - These things yelled at my 11 year old daughter and friends at school. Daddy is having a conversation with the school. Next step, gonna visit parents.
Daughter wants to bake cupcakes for wife's birthday. Dad, can I substitute baking soda for baking powder? Oh it is soooo tempting cause I know wife will smile and bear it.
Every dish in house now clean. Kids away with wife at sisters. Amazing how much cleaning can be done when it is not getting piled on as fast as you can unpile it.
In my day, a long time ago, when a kid's parents intervened, that kid usually got even worse treatment afterwards for being a 'snitch'.
Anyway, handle it however you need to.