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You Won't Believe This....

wow Ronnie

this is sad... maybe... good.. that u know .... maybe frustrating.. maybe cheerful bcz u not wiht the right person.... all emotions come together at one time and hit me of how to feel.. what to think.. what to say....

you are a VERY good person and you deserve the BEST...
and God knows the best for you and he will do it...
 
Wow I haven't been here for a while. This is a shock. I am speechless and that doesn't happen often. I hope it will remain drama free and simple. One day at a time my friend, that's all you can do. Don't be too hard on yourself, like Patrick said get a lawyer too. We'll be thinking of you Ronnie.
 
Wow, that's pretty shocking... Sending some good karma your way, and I hope things go as amicably as they have been
 
i always thought that you have a good thing going with her understanding your pepper obsession or whatnot, as you've mentioned throughout the years.

But chin up, just think of the beers and parties you will be having. and all the space for pepper growing!
 
I need to get the #$#! out of my house and I can fit everything I own in my car. Will you be needing a roommate????
Seriously, sorry to hear that Ronnie. I hope everything works out the way its meant to be in time.
 
A Hug and Kiss to you, amigo. As CJ said, if you're ever in the NW, dry side or wet side, you have a place to stay.
 
Maybe she saw your bottle of Grounds For Divorce.

Good luck AJ. You know your're really married to thehotpepper.com ;)

Now turn that puree into a business.
 
AlabamaJack said:
thanks again for the well wishes all...



I like my soilitude...
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I'm the same way. The irony is, it's a completely foreign concept to many of my friends and relatives. They think that if I don't talk to them on a nigh-constant basis, that I'll somehow be hurt, or worse, when I'm perfectly content to just be by myself. If I wanna go out, I'll go out, and I have zero problem going to a restaurant and/or movie by myself. Less listening to others bitch about their lives, and I don't get armchair quarterbacked into doing things I don't want to do.

I've long since grown tired of trying to explain to everyone that I just wanna be alone with my own thoughts most of the time, and I have no problem with people just leaving me be. Never did like small talk either, and I've gotten into quite a few disagreements where people wonder why I don't do 2-hour long mind-blowing conversations when a simple 5-minute chat will do. What free time I have is valuable to me, and I'd like to spend it living my life, and not listening to someone bitch for 45 minutes about how their life sucks, how their job is tough and their coworkers aren't doing their stuff. Seriously, being an IT guy, my free time is extremely valuable to me, and I'd like to spend time doing things that give me satisfaction, and not listen to someone bitch and moan for 45 minutes 4 times a week about how their life sucks, as if spending 9 hours+ a day fixing other people and hearing them bitch about their computer problems wasn't enough incentive to just become a hermit.

OK, I'm done with my mini rant. I'll now de-threadjack this
 
AJ, if you find yourself in a traveling mood around early September and you find yourself in Washington State anywhere near the first full weekend of September..... the NW pack will abduct you to the NW Chilefest and all will be forgotten....

probably literally... for the whole weekend.... :lol:


But seriously, come north and spend some time with us!
 
POTAWIE said:
Best of luck Ronnie. Being a bachelor isn't so bad :)
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I second.

....and third.


....and, well ask TB. He called me a "bitter divorcee" :P

Truth is.....it's infinately easier NOT to have to please a cohabitant. Retta and I love each other more than any two people possibly could. We've been together nearly 10 years. We've never had a serious argument. We've never raised our voices in anger. She's welcome here anytime. I'm free to stay with her as often as I want.

We just don't want to live together.

Ronnie, you are in my prayers. I feel for anyone who has to go through this!!!
 
good luck AJ. take care. give me a buzz the next time you're in illinois - would love to get together with you again.
 
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