all of ya thanks.
I'm kinda kicking myself, I planned on calling him when I got back into town but figured I'll just talk to him in a couple days.
I got back into town thursday night & he died friday late morning. I knew him since I was 16.
the 13 yr old daughter was home & she talked to her mom (my sister) on the phone & said dad is sleeping in the chair & then went back to her room. the 21 yr old daughter came home around 1-2pm & saw him really white, so she went to check him for a pulse.
the 13 yr was blaming herself for not checking on him, & saying maybe he'd be alive if she did.
the 21 yr & dad had plans on sunday, he wanted to be the 1st person to buy her 1st legal drink at the bar. her 21st birthday is today, he died 2 days before her birthday.
he was 42 died from massive heart attack, very hereditary but didnt know about it.
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ok not a heart attack, his heart just stopped working.
I'm no doctor, to me if a heart stops working its a heart attack.