Don't worry, they won't check the site, his mum has just told me. It's too painful atm for her.
I agree that CapLover would've wanted us to have fun on (t)his thread and as long as we do that with the due respect, it shouldn't give anyone the impression that we are having a party on his grave. (no, that wasn#t supposed to be funny, I hope you know what I was trying to say)
I decided not to send her the link to the RIP thread and will instead forward a list of all the condolences from it and from PMs I got.